Although it was more than a decade ago, I remember it as vividly as if
it happened last week.
It was a beautiful day on the Jersey Shore, and I was driving home
after a news conference about a bill being introduced in the House of
Representatives designed to required insurers to cover the treatment of
infertility if they also covered maternity care.
The road was empty of other vehicles, and in the silence of that quiet
road I realized that my purpose in life was to work for, and with,
organizations whose missions are focused on improving the lives of others. In that
moment of clarity, I found my passion; a passion that would be the deciding
factor for all my future professional choices.
Over the years, I have truly come to appreciate Wayne Dyer’s quote, “Doing what
you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life.” If you aren’t
doing what you love – or are passionate about – you most likely are not really
giving it your best effort. After all, who gives their best effort for something
they don’t like?
This is not to
say that your work quality is sub-par if you are not passionate about the
company or the job. A recent study at the University of
Warwick found that happiness at work significantly increases productivity. Just
imagine what your quality of work would be like if you woke up every morning
excited to get there!
Unfortunately,
as Cal
Newport points out, finding your passion, or passions, is not always easy
or quick. That doesn’t mean that you should give up looking, or refuse an offer
of employment simply because it is outside your passion. It just means that you
may have to spend more effort to find it. By effort, I mean trying new things, or
donating your time to nonprofits whose missions interest you. Go back to school
– you might find a passion for teaching or a different field altogether.
A few years
ago I found myself asking what I wanted to be when I finally grew up, even
though I was in my mid-40’s at the time. I was on the precipice of a mid-life
crisis, and had no idea what I wanted to do other than help others. I know it
sounds corny, but there it is in all its unvarnished truth. So, the question
was really, what did I want to do for the second half of my life?
My passions are
serving the military, higher education, and infertility communities. Given that
knowledge, what did I need to do in order to feel passionate about what I do
for the next 40 years, and enable myself to do it?
First of all,
I took a look at my life goals and realized I had neglected one: obtaining an
MBA. Although I worked in the field of higher education for almost 20 years, I
never took advantage of the opportunities to reach that goal. So, I entered the
MBA Program at American Public
University, and graduated with honors, while working and travelling
full-time. It wasn’t easy, but I did it.
You are
probably wondering what this has to do with identifying my passion at work. The
answer: it helped clarify where my specific talents and interests lie, and
identified areas where I was focusing significant time and energy for which I
am ambivalent. It opened doors to new possibilities and opportunities to work
with those three communities, which I would have never considered.
The bottom
line is this: take a look at where you are, where you appear to be going, and
ask yourself if you are really passionate about the possibilities. If not, take
a step back, grab your best friend (or friends), and ask yourself what you are
passionate about, and then decide what you can do to fulfill those passions.
Editor’s Note: This post also appears on LinkedIn.
Before founding her own
consulting firm, Dawn Gannon served as a respected project management and
administrative operations professional in the military, higher education, and
healthcare fields for 25 years. As a Lean/Six Sigma Green Belt, Dawn’s
commitment and personal mission to improve the lives of others through service
to the community focuses on providing administrative and volunteer
management, consumer education, public outreach, event planning,
relationship-building efforts, and strategic planning. She is a contributor on LinkedIn, the author of the Management in Motion blog, and has written a number of articles
for RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association on the topic of childfree
living.