“Hi! Dawn Gannon. Nice to meet you!”
“Hi, Dawn. I.M. Fulavet. Nice to meet you, too. What brings you here?”
What brings me here – to this moment – to this event? In other words, who am I?
As business men and women, most of us already know the answer to that question, and those who don’t are struggling to find out.
For those who do know who they are, have you checked in with yourself lately? Are you really who you wanted to be?
I’m sure Mr. Fulavet believes he is.
I know this blog has a different tone than most of the others I have written, but the Passover and Easter seasons have struck a different chord with me this year. Both holidays represent freedom from captivity, albeit in different ways.
Reflecting on the meaning of both has led me to ask myself the following questions:
- What if I have unknowingly become captive in a persona I would never have wanted or could believe I could be?
- Is the success of business goals my highest priority? If so, at what cost, both personally and professionally?
- Have I knowingly stepped on and over others to reach my goals? If so, why would I do that when I have been taught all my life that it is unacceptable behavior?
- Do I have my priorities straight? Where do my family, friends, and I myself fall within that list, and why are they in that order?
The answers, for me and anyone else, lie in the answer to the question: Who am I, really?
Granted, in business, the sharks generally consume the little fish and are successful simply because they think only of themselves. As a business leader, thinking and planning for the success of your business is also tremendously important.
However, in the 1998 version of the movie, You’ve Got Mail, Tom Hanks’ character, Joe Fox, tells Meg Ryan’s character, Kathleen Kelly, that the forced closing of her store is just business; that it’s not personal. But it’s Kathleen’s response to that statement that gets me every time. Click the link below to see the scene.
“All that means is that it wasn’t personal to you. But it was personal to me. It was personal to a lot of people. And what’s so wrong with being personal anyway? Whatever else anything is, it ought to begin with being personal.”
In other words, making your business successful is a great accomplishment, as long as you don't forget to be personal as well.
So, who am I? Perhaps I should start with being personal and let Mr. Fulavet take care of himself.
To those who celebrate, Chag Pesach Sameach and Happy Easter!
Before founding her own consulting firm, Dawn Gannon served as a respected management professional in the military, higher education, and healthcare fields for 25 years. As a Lean/Six Sigma Green Belt, Dawn’s commitment and personal mission to improve the lives of others through service to the community focuses on providing administrative operations management and strategic planning. She is the author of the Management in Motion blog, and has written a number of articles for RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association on the topic of childfree living.